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Time:06:20 pm
it greatly disturbs me that those who would consider themselves educated can be so blatantly close-minded. that's right, i'm talking about marriage and how some spout off about how marriage in your early 20's can only lead to divorce and etc, etc, ignorance, ignorance, ignorance! (i deeply apologize that some people have found someone whom they love at such a young tender age, and that others who search endlessly and without luck cannot. So I apologize for being happy and finding someone who makes me happy in return.)

i came from a family that was torn apart by an ugly divorce, and i vowed my whole life, which happens to only be 22 years that i would not let my children or family go through that ordeal. people get married when they feel they are ready to, when they know that it is what they want, when they are eternally happy and can not picture themselves with anyone else.

it sickens me that those whom we once considered friends can say things about decisions that are so important to you so tactlessly, and publically. i think they are simply resentful. angry because they see that others around them are slightly happier than they are and they seek to hurt them to make themselves feel better about their single status. failed relationship after failed relationship is bound to make one a little bitter, but please don't fucking generalize and pass an extremely uneducated opinion upon others just to make yourself feel better for a few measly seconds.
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matineesiren
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Time:2007-07-30 11:30 pm (UTC)
I remember you being very skeptical about marriage because of what your family has been through. I think you of all people wouldn't just jump into something without thinking about the possible outcomes. It is hard to be married at such a young age (I didn't love my husband before I married him, so it's a different situation, but I can attest to the fact that we do grow and change sometimes drastically as we age).

But I also know how much you love your fiance. I know long you've cared about him. And I know you won't make a poor decision. Congrats hun.

I even bought a new black and silver saree for your wedding :P Hey, I wanna blend in! :D

And where's my invite!

Btw, would you like for me to do henna on you? I didn't know if you'd want it because you're wearing a western wedding gown, but then, I've seen lots of women wear henna (and arab women who wear white gowns, which most do, all wear henna, and look fabulous). I'd love to give you a little henna party :D
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callinghome
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Time:2007-07-31 08:16 pm (UTC)
thank you for being supportive, i felt bad about writing that entry all day.
could you call me again, i got your voicemail, but your new number didn't show up.
btw, we just picked up the invitations yesterday, we won't be mailing them for a few weeks. the bridal shower is on sept. 8, your invitation for that should arrive within the next week or week and a half.
:)
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buttman_strikes
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Time:2007-07-31 01:38 pm (UTC)
congrats on getting hitched! when is the ceremony and recep? man.... that is so exciting!
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callinghome
Subject:Re: sorry that some people don't understand you
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Time:2007-07-31 08:14 pm (UTC)
wedding in pittsford, reception in hillsdale, Oct. 20!
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accident_prone_
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Time:2007-08-10 10:45 pm (UTC)
wish you all the best in your marriage.
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